Guangzhou investigation: The child most object helping parents wash kowtow of fo

Yesterday (13 days) it is mother's day, guangzhou city Children's Palace and " urbanite · grows " the magazine was announced " understand to what be thankful about the parent and child " findings. Investigation shows, the parent of 84 ％ thinks present child is not known be thankful, the parent of 59 ％ thinks " the child is not known be thankful " main reason is parents too doting; And in the memory in the child, "Side parents does chore " and " etc was brought up provide for parents " it is the kind that can express the feeling that appreciate most, and " side parents washs a foot " and " to parental kowtow " children are willing to do least of all.

Parents

The child does not understand be thankful is fondly " chief culprit "

Investigation shows, the parent of 84 ％ thinks present child is not known be thankful, the parent of 59 ％ thinks " the child is not known be thankful " main reason is parents too doting and the bad influence of social conduct. Teach child learning chorally Mr. Sun thinks, "The education that separate era " extensive existence is abet the social conduct that is a center with the child. Additional, almost all parents think the child is to should be known be thankful.

So, how to let do not know the child that be thankful to know be thankful? Exceeding the parent of 90 ％ to think is to want set an example, make from oneself, parents is right the child, right others should be known be thankful; 2 it is to want the bagatelle from inside living at ordinary times to be made, let the child acknowledgment others is paid to theirs and be helped. Also a few parent thinks, let the child see mom give birth to the child's kinescope, perhaps let them go up to wash a foot to wait to parents in that way like TV, also be necessary.

The child

Be thankful even if appreciate the person that helps oneself

And in child memory, "Be thankful " what to mean? Investigation shows, children are approve of to be thankful, contain on understanding " repay " imply. "Parents fostered me, I should appreciate parents to be paid to mine " , " appreciate all helps to cross me, the person that gives me pleasure " , " others helps me, I also want redound others " , above 3 kinds of views, become children to define " be thankful " scale is 20 ％ , 44 ％ are mixed respectively 36 ％ ; Think without the child " be thankful " be a kind " antiquated thought " .

To " you think who needs to be thankful most " this problem, the answer of children basically is " parents " , " teacher " and " the person that has helped us " . And " parents " what hold proportion highest.

Child of the kowtow that wash a foot does not want

What behavior can express the feeling of his gratitude? The answer of children is diversiform, among them " side parents does chore " the proportion that holds is highest, achieve 19 ％ . It is next " respectable teacher " , " give get one's own back to helping his person " , " the person that the help needs to help socially " , " the birthday that remembers father and mother " and " etc was brought up provide for parents " . And " wash a foot to parents " and " to parental kowtow " what take scale minimum.
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